Kris Hughes, ABS

Originally from South Carolina, he spent almost 25 years in the United States Army, serving all over the world in multiple positions.

For most of his life, he was constantly moving from one task to the next, paying little attention to where he was or how he was feeling. Although he dedicated his life to service, he failed to realize that he couldn’t truly be there for others if he wasn’t first there for himself.

It wasn’t until after his divorce that he finally found the space to understand his true self and core desires.

He is a heterosexual, cis-gender male with an open mind and a passion for kink. He demonstrates love through acts of service and feels loved when he is heard and seen.

He believes that everyone deserves to be their true selves—free from shame and rich in their diversity—which is why he trained with the Somatica Institute to become a sex and relationship